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| Some children can only sleep if there is a doll at their side. |
Children Health – Children usually can not be separated from
their beloved objects. You as a parent should give attention to this matter.
Children are usually reluctant to far from objects such as dolls, pillows,
blankets, bolsters, and other objects. They usually feel calm if that objects
near of them.
If you leave this habit happen to your
children, it will give some negative impacts to the child development. These
objects will be transformed into a protective figure for them. They will feel
comfortable only if there are objects of their beloved. Imagine if it happened
until they are adults. What would be considered by their friends?
Some of these things are to be done by the
parents if that case above is arising to their children:
1. Often
to open conversations with your children
The modern era led to both of the parents
have to work. They usually leave their children alone at home, or accompanied
by caregivers. This will cause the children to feel the relationship with
parents increasingly distant. Therefore, you need to set aside time to talk
with your child, no matter how busy your day was.
2. Show
your love to your children by physical touch
To start a conversation, not infrequently the
parents will feel stiff. Therefore, you can begin by giving a hug, caress, or
simply holding the hands of your children before you start to talk with them.
It will make your child feel that you love them with wholeheartedly.
3. Tell
your child that you love them
"I love you" it is the words that
have often spoken by parents to their children. Children will feel that their
parents are their true protector. Thus, slowly but surely, your children begin
to leave the dependence on their favorite objects. So, if one day your children
have a problem, they will choose you to listen to their problem.
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